Dr. Elle Ramirez, also known as QueenNoble and writer of the book called, “The Challenges During Quarantine How To Keep Our Sanity” has given some life advices.
Dr. Elle Ramirez once shared with her readers and collectors, including her followers on her social media accounts the life she went through when she stopped connecting to toxic people such as friends for financial benefits, relatives who love to spread lies and gossips, manipulative partner, a vampire workmate and fake friends. “Sometimes, you are way better off alone. You control yourself, you trust yourself, you rely on yourself. But don’t forget that there are good people out there. You just need not to expect from anyone. Less expectations, the less you get hurt.”, QueenNoble said.
Here are the few things we can remind ourselves based on Dr. Elle Ramirez’s life advices:
1.) Being underestimated is a powerful tool.
“Instead of getting upset, use it. You have control over yourself. You have full authority to make you the best version of yourself. Do it not for them, do it for yourself. You don’t owe that particular person.”. – QueenNoble
2.) Save
“No matter what, save something for yourself. I get it, we are too kind sometimes. But we tend to be too hard on ourselves. Don’t. Leave something that will save you from a fire! You can’t help anyone if you don’t help yourself first.”.- QueenNoble
3.) Say “No”
“Saying “No” doesn’t make you the bad person. Don’t let people milk you for their needs when they can provide for themselves. Definitely, you’re not the bad guy! It is called self-respect.”.- QueenNoble
4.) Walk Away
“Crocos are everywhere. Even it’s a “friend”or a relative. Forgive but learn to walk away from the things you cannot control like jealousy and gossips. The only way to stop them from being too busy talking about you, is to less seeing them and less or to zero giving them information about your whereabouts. Less drama and more peace of mind. You don’t see and hear them so less tension. Enjoy your time with those who celebrate with you and are transparent with you. Don’t close doors there are good people out there but don’t expect too much from anyone and learn to forgive for your own peace of mind. “. – QueenNoble
5.) Be Kind
“For me, kindness is very sacred. Genuine kindness cannot be made up and it is unconditional. Try to be kind to people because you don’t know what they are going through. Sometimes, those who hurt you, just lack of it. But be wise to walk away. Sometimes, the best revenge is not to do anything. “. – QueenNoble
Do you find any of these advices relatable? Share your thoughts.
Source : www.queennoble.com
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